So, sex with the lights on, or off? If you have a negative body image, the former may seem a nightmare. But, Anouszka Tate asks, what should sex look like anyway?
Anouszka Tate answers more of your sex and relationship questions, this week looking at the tricky issue of exes, plus anxiety about having sex after a long hiatus.
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